Anonymous asked: I'm not underage because in Australia the legal age is 16
aw well I really cant give good advice on that since I haven’t gone as far as you and I would not know how to handle myself in that situation. I wish I could help but I cant do much but just wish you the best and hope you can resist these urges
Anonymous asked: I had sex with my boss and I'm working tomorrow and I don't know how to resist the urge to suck him again HELP ME. (I'm 17 & his 28)
um I wish I could help but I really cant since you’re underage and he’s like 11 years older…sorry
Congratulations, you’ve made it through another month!
(And almost another year!)
I’m so proud of you for carrying on, when sometimes you didn’t want to.
Happy December! :)
Keep going, you are doing great.
Anonymous asked: How do i know if i'm in love with someone.
In my point of view I think it’s when you feel this different type of way for this person than anyone else, They’re always on your mind and can make you smile so easily. You can be having the worst day and just them being their for you makes you happy. The dumbest things they do always happens to make you smile. When you cant stop thinking about them and their on your mind 24/7. When your willing to do anything for them and always wanting to be their for them. Sometimes your in love and you don’t even know it. We all have different perspectives on if we think we are in love. But only you can tell how you really feel about this person. Hope it helps! :)
Anonymous asked: thanks so much :) it means a lot <3 I'll try :) I'll be confident well. atleast try to be ahah
You’re welcome :) don’t forget it! When you feel the moment is right just repeat to yourself “confidence is key” I hope it works and you have a great outcome!
Anonymous asked: thanks , yeah i do talk to him, he starts conversations and everything and even sometimes if i don't say hi first after about 5 min. of seeing eachother at practice he'll come say hi or like mess with me. and when we hug before going home is the best thing ever. all i look forward to everyday. i'm just to scared to tell him.
HEY see you got this!! He may feel a bond between you two which is a good start! Maybe try getting to know him a bit more before just telling him because then you’ll just get him by surprise. Just be confident in what you are going to tell him. Know what to say and don’t be nervous. Smile ! :) okay. Maybe give him hints but never doubt yourself okay.
CONFIDENCE IS KEY
hey who knows you can have a great outcome. And don’t hold it off saying “maybe tomorrow” Be strong and believe in yourself. You’ve gotten this far, you can do this!
Anonymous asked: I've liked this guy on my team for the longest time now and i dont know what to do. It has come to the point where it hurts me to see him at practice because i want us to happen. i don't know what to do
Do you talk to this guy at all? Get to know him. Talk to him. It might be scary but you’re a team which makes you “family” don’t fall to easily for people. Having a crush on someone hurts but that’s the point of it. Crushes are fun because you have feelings for someone else but you don’t settle down you can move on and meet new interesting people. Be confident in yourself! Don’t be nervous it’s not as hard as you think it is. Take a deep breath and think what you are going to say before going up to him. Just stay calm and hey if he turns you down who cares because there are better people out there for you. So keep your head up you’re doing great :) Hope it helps and good luck
Anonymous asked: hi so there's this guys max i think he's really cute and I like him we kinda have first period together but different coaches because we have pe / health first and sometimes all the coaches go in the gym with the students so all is freshmen hang out and the guy I like max is in my math class and we talk but it's not flirting but he likes my friend Hillery but she has a boyfriend and doesn't like him how can I step my game up and get his number without if being to obvious that I like him help pls
Hey you have the guts to talk to him so you’re getting there. If he happens to be good in math or such just be like “hey i really don’t understand what we are learning today can I happen to get your number so you can explain this to me?” Be confident when talking to him don’t act really nervous or it will just be obvious. Always smile around him, tell some jokes and maybe flirt for a bit and then change the subject. Make him laugh. Or if you’re having a really good conversation just ask for his number so you guys can continue it. or maybe even the old “hey can I have your number just in case I forget to write down the homework one of these days? Just start a conversation with him and ask most people wont deny giving you their number. don’t be scared okay! it’s going to be fine you got this. Hope it helps ! :)
Anonymous asked: My boyfriend broke up with me about two months ago and I miss him terribly. We sometimes talk but only once every couple weeks and I'm the one who always has to message him first. Should I still try to talk to him or back away? Id rather be his friend than lose him forever by only being an ex but I feel like I annoy him. Also, his birthday is coming up and I don't know what I should say? We used to write long messages to each other on birthdays, holidays, anniversary, or whenever we thought was
I think giving him some time will be good. He’ll eventually find his way back. Have you tried talking to him about this situation? I think this time you shouldn’t write a long message maybe just a “hey hope you have a great day happy birthday! :)” something sweet and to the point. It’s going to be hard and it might feel awkward for him since it just ended. Don’t rush things between you guys okay. Be aware that you might still be emotionally dependent on this person. Be patient okay give him some time to figure things out. It’s going to take awhile but if you’re up for it do it. Remember things between you wont be the same and it will take awhile. Just know it’s going to be hard at first but you go this okay :) I’m here for you if you need any more help :)